Courtesy and Good Manners are excellent quality and should be your normal default. However, there is a point that they can push you into dangerous territory and potentially make you a victim. Learn to understand when and where you should shift your behavior in favor of safety.
Our Freedom of Speech is being stripped away. Over the last few days corporate giants made an unprecedented move and dismantled Parler a social media platform. Regardless of your politics, you should be highly concerned with this step towards silencing the public.